I need some advice please.
My fiance is having his best friend as his best man.
The only problem was, that for some reason after sending out the invitations to the wedding, his best mans wife stopped talking to me.
After a few months i felt very uncomfortable with her coming esp since she ignored me at her husbands Birthday party and invited my fiances ex gf.to that Birthday party knowing that it would be uncomfortable for both of us as it was a messy breakup. :O
About 3 months ago, i found out that her and my fiances best friend are on shakey ground and have seperated. Tho i felt bad for him- i am so excited she is not going to be there on my big day!!! :)
Here is the dilemma:
He (the best man), has now met someone whom i think he may want to bring to the wedding.
We have never met her and just heard that he went overseas to see her.
However- in my head, i had already given the seat away as it is a small wedding and i thought i could now invite someone i couldn't initially give an invitation too.
Am i being unkind?